Settling Back OK

General Details
Working mother
Type of leave:
Number of years professional experience:
11-15 years
Length of leave:
6-12 months
Type of experience:
Work pattern on return:
Standard full-time
Message I have just returned to full time work after 9 months’ maternity leave. I am fortunate in that I was promoted just before my maternity leave started, which reassured me that taking time off to have a baby has not (yet) hurt my career prospects. So far I have benefited from an extremely supportive partner, who is able to pick up our daughter from nursery most days. I’d be really stuck if I had to take responsibility for pick-ups, given that nursery closes at 6pm and I have my commute is around an hour. I have also put into place contingency arrangements for those days when neither of us can manage the nursery pick up.
I splurged on a new professional wardrobe before returning to work, which has helped me to feel less mumsy on my return. I absolutely recommend this – I think it’s important for career women to look the part, especially when surrounded by men in expensive hand-made suits.
Generally I’m really happy to be back at work and am enjoying the stimulation. Returning to work was definitely the right decision for me.


Anonymous Posted On 9th Nov 2015 at 12:55
I did the same! I used a personal shopper in our local department store which made the whole process super quick and efficient and I was pleased with the results.
Anonymous Posted On 20th Oct 2015 at 13:50
Absolutely agree about the new wardrobe. I started my childcare arrangements a week early each time so that I would have extra time for settling them in if needed (it wasn't in either case but I felt less desperate), and also to make sure I had a couple of days to myself for buying work clothes I felt really good in. This helped me feel confident going back instead of struggling into my pre-baby trousers.
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